We’ve all heard that changing diet plays a big part in how your man’s cum tastes but for those of us who don’t have the patience to wait a couple of months for that to take effect and feel that dumping him over it seems a little harsh what is the answer?
Well I have a top tip for you which avoids the need for the awkward “Honey, going down on you makes me want to vomit in my mouth” conversation and will leave him begging for more. What is it you ask?
Simply alternate sucking him off as normal and incorporating a mouthful of water into your routine. He’ll think you’ve picked up some new skills, will love the sensation of the changing temperature and when he cums it doesn’t hit your tongue or back of the throat directly but gets diluted with the water which can be quickly swallowed without you getting the full flavoursome hit!
A close friend of mine was visiting last night and over a glass of vino (aka 3 bottles) started complaining about her sex life. She talked for a while but the major issues to her were lack of intimacy in the relationship, lack of foreplay and when they did get around to having sex the other week it was over in seconds – a common enough complaint I’m sure you might agree. So I was quietly sympathetic but couldn’t help but ask the question, “How often do you have sex?”
Given the title of my post I’m sure you can guess where this is going. So I want to say here and now that while sex isn’t critical to every relationship out there I do believe that intimacy is and if sex is no longer on your agenda, then you need to find other ways to achieve the intimacy. In my friend’s case however there was nothing stopping them having good sex, it was something they both wanted but they’d drifted away from each other, were less intimate and afraid to discuss that aspect of their relationship in case it led to deeper problems. When asked why she didn’t try to initiate more she shrugged, said she was tired and couldn’t be bothered because it wasn’t that good when they did it. I must admit to feeling some sympathy for hubby at this point, if I go five months without then it doesn’t take me long either!!!
My advice therefore was simple. Have more sex. Even if you’re tired or not in the mood. Have sex every day for a week. Prioritise that part of your life for a change. Sex breaks down the walls, creates intimacy and bad sex can lead to average sex which can lead to great sex. Stop making excuses, stop ignoring that aspect of your relationship and just have sex. Lack of time is no excuse, she already said it didn’t take that long!!